Recent headlines involving allegations of domestic violence against a prominent member of the Lincoln, Massachusetts community are a clear reminder that domestic violence can happen to anyone regardless of their age, gender, ethnicity, or social standing. Domestic violence (also known as intimate partner violence) is rooted in the abuser’s need to exert power and control over the person they’re abusing.
REACH wants to reaffirm that domestic violence isn’t an isolated issue and shouldn’t be treated as such. Domestic violence affects our entire community, and thus it warrants a community-wide response. It’s important that we recognize the signs of abuse, support survivors however we can, and ensure we have the tools and knowledge to talk about domestic violence in a safe and productive manner. Speaking up and confiding in a loved one about abuse takes immense courage and trust, and supporting survivors to find help and safety can prevent further harm and escalation of violence.
It's also important to remember that domestic violence is often more than just physical abuse. It can include emotional abuse, coercive control, financial manipulation, threats, intimidation, and isolation, especially in cases where the abuser is a prominent community figure. When the abuser occupies a position of power, especially within the criminal legal system, that can make it all the more difficult for a survivor to feel comfortable speaking up about the abuse they’ve endured.
To anyone experiencing domestic violence or abuse: What happened to you is not your fault, and you are not alone. You deserve to feel safe, and no one, regardless of their title or status, has the right to harm you. If and when you are ready, you can call REACH’s 24/7 hotline at 800-899-4000. The hotline is 100% free and is staffed by trained personnel who will listen to your concerns with genuine care and who will work diligently to connect you to the resources and support you need.
Abuse thrives in silence, but we as a community have the power to break that silence. REACH remains committed to our mission of not only supporting survivors in the moment, but also utilizing prevention and awareness programming to change social norms and help stop domestic violence before it starts.
