Category: Survivor Voices

Acknowledging the Mental Scars of Domestic Violence

*Since May is Mental Health Awareness Month, we wanted to share this blog post written by one of the survivors REACH has worked with as part of our Survivor Speakers’ Bureau. Writing about mental health and abuse is like writing about being nauseated with a stomach virus. They go hand in hand. When my dad died when I was 18, it was the first time I…

My Trauma Wounded Me, But it Did Not Silence Me

The Survivor Speaker’s Bureau (SSB) of REACH Beyond Domestic Violence is based on a social justice model in which REACH staff and volunteers work with community members, community agencies, educational institutions, and youth to raise community awareness and understanding of domestic violence to create positive change by encouraging individuals to reflect on their selves and their relationships with individuals and the community. This blog post was…

Survivor Voices: Finding the Courage to Leave

By Maya*, REACH Survivor Speakers Bureau “I knew I had to leave…it was the only way my son and I would ever be safe.” Those are the words I spoke when I sat down with REACH staff during my initial intake. For most people, deciding to leave can seem like such a simple thing. If you don’t want to be somewhere, you turn around and you…

Maya’s Journey with REACH

How your year-end gift makes a difference in countless ways. My name is Pam Jordan, and I am the Director of Community Advocacy at REACH Beyond Domestic Violence. I cannot begin to thank you enough for your ongoing support. You make it possible for REACH to help survivors transition from that first, brave call to our hotline, through safety planning and sometimes a stay in a…

Reach for the Stars Gala 2023

Together at last! Our Reach for the Stars Gala event was held in person for the first time in three years on April 29, 2023 at the inspirational Artists for Humanity Epicenter in South Boston. Highlights of the evening included a powerful, heartrending presentation by our keynote speaker, a domestic violence survivor. Additionally, there was a resounding tribute and standing ovation to our former Executive Director, Laura…

I Will Use My Voice For Change

By M, a survivor There are rare moments in life when we can stand up for something that is timely, ethically right, and appropriate, for our identity.  I’ve received this opportunity, but it came with pain, anguish, and lots of time where I had to take to heal. Back in the fall of 2014, I was so angry, sad, devastated, and disheveled in every way. I…

Transcendence Is

By Patricia  I have sojourned the seas and risen   Albeit chaotic, I searched for my voice in the meadows of life  The relentless noises made me surmise  Aching and pressing the vision created strife    A host of regrets and forgotten songs  I longed to be rescued from the trap  Not knowing what next I moved to be strong  Of course, I was petrified of the…

REACH is my community

By Survivor, M., member of the Survivor Speakers Bureau Domestic violence awareness month (DVAM) is here. For me domestic violence looks like a marriage of 20 years. I am a member of the REACH Survivor Speakers Bureau. For me, this month also includes speaking engagements arranged by REACH staff. It is a chance to share my story, to be believed and to be heard. I am always grateful for these…